Details

I worked with Alys Beach's coordinator, Meghan, to find my vendors using a list that the community has curated; I was immediately drawn to the work of Fisher's Flowers. Minimalist and chic but with high-impact. They worked with me, going through my Pinterest board and using feedback throughout the whole process, to put together the floral and space plan for our wedding. I highly recommend using Pinterest heavily if you are planning a destination wedding; it's just a great way to be able to have an image to help you articulate a vision. We opted for a tent just in case the weather took a cooler turn, and it ended up being a magical addition. They strung Edison bulb lights across the entire space and created a glow. Seriously it glowed. We did three long family-style tables with greenery runners and dainty florals and hurricane glass votives scattered down the length of the table. They draped Brad and my chairs in flowers and peachy ribbons in this perfectly boho-chic manner; it was a special detail that was just for us. In lieu of an altar, Fisher's created a flower-draped trellis and hung it with a chandelier that became the home of our cake post-ceremony. I had tiny gold jungle animal place card holders that I got from a wonderful Etsy vendor at each seat that people were hoarding by the end of the night! (She also makes a version that comes with a tiny party hat WHAT.) Our gorgeous place cards were hand-lettered by our calligrapher Caitlin. They made me smile so hard. It was great because we were able to ship items like these ahead of time so we didn't have to worry about transporting them (and likely forgetting something); I highly recommend shipping as much ahead if you can for a destination wedding, it saved us many headaches. The entire team was flawless. I didn't have to think about a single thing the entire day besides "who has my cell phone". 

Venue: Kelly Green, Alys Beach // Florals: Fisher's Flowers // Photography: Lauren Kinsey

Up In Space

Last week was a rough one; there was a lot of loss to go around. We spent a big part of our car ride to the beach this weekend blasting Bowie songs, and the more I listened the more I realized how much the songs have played a part in my life. Knowing that he basically planned his exit with a gift to his fans is in perfect Bowie fashion, but it also helped me remember to focus on the good memories and what you loved about whoever it is that has left. I'll avoid getting to emo here, but if you're feeling down go blast Young Americans or Golden Years at full volume and don't tell me you don't feel better. I found this Bowie tee at JC Penney of all places, but surprisingly they've got a pretty good "vintage" tee shirt game. Also go here to get Blackstar and listen to Lazarus. 

Inviting

Photo: Lauren Kinsey // Calligraphy: Charlie Whiskey // Invitations: Bella Figura via Charlotte's Inc. // Menus: Paperbuzz

One thing that was important to me in planning our wedding was the paper; I had a specific look I wanted in my head pretty much from the beginning that I wanted to be cohesive throughout all of the invitations and other related items. I worked with Shannon of Charlotte's here in Raleigh, who realized that none of the samples were fitting my vision, and promptly set out to find the right calligrapher for me. Not only did she find the original calligrapher from the uncredited inspiration pic (which is essentially wizardry), but ultimately she found our amazing calligrapher Caitlin of Charlie Whiskey. Caitlin took my inspiration picture and created what I think is a gorgeous balance of modern and classic for our invitations. It was important to me to follow some elements of tradition and formality, but I wanted a unique, almost handwritten effect. 

Shannon helped me navigate the formalities and making sure everything looked good together, and I think what Caitlin did is amazing. It's exactly what I wanted. I love her work so much that we also had her do the menu and place cards for the seated dinner after the ceremony at Alys Beach. The menu is everything. I loved it so much I practically want to frame it; we had those done through Paperbuzz and they had them printed in a gorgeous light, raised gold. I could eat them. She also did a very special custom song quote that was my gift to my hubs, and it means the world to us. I can't thank Charlotte's + Charlie Whiskey + Paperbuzz for all of their hard work and the beautiful results! 

Photos: Lauren Kinsey

Staple: Oxford Popover

Heyyyyy everybody! So I've been on somewhat of a hiatus since June; it's been a crazy busy summer so far so my blogging schedule has been all wonked up. I'll elaborate at some point, but I'm back now! And I'll lead off with this sick Oxford from J Crew. It was sold out and I was so sad but it's back! At least, it's back on pre-order. But I'm just excited I got a second chance to snag one, it is going to be a wardrobe staple for sure! AND, J Crew is offering an additional 40% off final sale items with code LONGWEEKEND and 30% off of select styles not otherwise on sale. Shop my favorite sale picks below! 

Catalina!

Definitely scooping up these adorable Catalina shorts from Lou & Grey for #summerlife. Remember Lou & Grey? They do comfort + style at a great price point. I just love this embroidered broadcloth fabric and the little hint of coral/orange. It also comes in a swingy dress, a ROMPER, and even a tee. I'm adding the striped knit sweater too, I love a summer weight sweater. 

Memorial Day Packing List

We are heading down to the famous 30A beaches of Florida for the Memorial holiday to check out the Watercolor Inn & Spa to see what's shaking and I'm pumped. Obviously packing is a process, and I think streamlining is important. Now I've totally over-streamlined before and ended up with like, a ratty tee shirt and a pair of dress pants as my only wardrobe options, so thoughtful streamlining is critical. Pack at least one outfit that is acceptable for public consumption and then figure out your loungewear situation. 

A cute coverup, like this one from Shoshanna, will serve you well-it's enough of an outfit for most beachy dining options by day and will give you confidence on the beach. Especially if you're not ready for swimsuit weather. Skinny minnies should 100% invest in a Marysia swimsuit. I heart them all. I love love love these cute and well-priced sandals from Splendid, and I really like the silver version as well. They're a tad dressier. 

I use my Lands End totes as suitcases all the time, and I love this berry color. They come in zip and non-zip options, non-zip makes for the BEST beach bag. They are such a great price point and are virtually indestructible. 

For extras, I think a floppy straw hat is not only stylish, it's practical. This one from Old Navy is a steal. While you're at it, don't forget the sunscreen; Beautycounter does an excellent, healthy SPF 30 allover version. I also think packing a statement necklace is a great move, if you throw it on with a tank top or a simple sundress you've got a look. Especially if you fumble on the clothing packing. One of the Sylvia Necklaces from Loren Hope is perfect, just pick your favorite color! 

Nora & Nicky's

Hey ladies! If you're looking for a last minute plan for your Friday night, head down to Nora & Nicky's in downtown Raleigh for a fashion show benefitting an EXCELLENT cause, The Jamie Kirk Hahn Foundation. Click here to RSVP. If you're not familiar with Nora & Nicky's you shouuuld be! This beautiful downtown store consigns gorgeous, quality high-end brands, everything from DVF to Louis Vuitton. I recently spent a little time with N & N's sweet owner Cathy, who explained that the boutique is more than just beautiful clothes and accessories. She is truly on a mission to get people to to think about sustainable living, to pay her employees a living wage and to be a part of building a vibrant downtown Raleigh. She is absolutely inspiring. I played around with this gorgeous Catherine Malandrino dress and insane silver J Crew heels (that went home with me despite being 2 sizes too big) and hung out in front of some cool walls in DTR. Totally normal. See below for some of my favorites, and check out all of their latest on Instagram to call dibs! And seriously, head down to their show tonight, I can't think of a better reason!  

Last Minute Mother's Day

Don't fret last-minute-shoppers! Here are a few out-of-the-box ideas for Mother's Day for your hip moms. I think getting away from the standard flowers and a card is a nice thing-not that there's anything wrong with that-but it's fun to get a little creative for good (old) mom. JK mom. 

I would imagine that the "Overserved" cocktail napkins from Waiting On Martha -which is a great place to hunt for gifts- would suit a lot of good-humored moms just fine! It's a cheeky twist on the standard linen cocktail napkin. I also love the "High Ball" and "Thirsty" napkins, they're all so clever and fun.

For a young mama I love the new Jonathan Cohen print in orchid from Marysia Swim. I've also been obsessed with the high-neck halter for those who want a little more coverage; it's killer in black, and great to have for the coming Memorial Day holiday!

I mentioned my love of Marigot recently, and I still don't think you can go wrong with their Starfish PJs or a light robe; they'll be perfect to have for lounging and sleeping over the warmer months. 

Tory Burch's signature scent is not only nice and light, with hints of peonies, but the packaging and bottle is beautiful, and would look lovely on any dressing table or countertop. 

I also love this gorgeous, colorful set of letterpress notecards from Rifle Paper Co.; if your mom is like mine, she keeps a stockpile of pretty cards on hand because she still writes her friends notes. Unlike most of us who think email or worse text should be acceptable now. I say that and am definitely the most guilty. Maybe we should all get ourselves a set too while we're at it?

And finally, who ever complains about jewelry? Zero hands raised. I love these pieces from Loren Hope, where you can find something for any mama. I am intrigued by the Arista anklet, and have this tingle of excitement at the thought of wearing one again for the first time since 1987. (Guys right? Right???) You cannot go wrong with the Abba drop earrings, and another edgy fave is the turquoise "Kai" double ring.

Link Love

Happy Friday y'all! Here are some of the wonderful things I've encountered on the wide world of the interwebs this week! 

1. Eat & Drink: Vinepair has this helpful and downright cute infographic guide to BBQ wine pairings! BBQ goes with more than beer! Just in time for grilling weather!

2. Go: I'm obsessed with the Hotel St. Cecilia in Austin. So glam, but right at home in the music loving city. 

3. Admire: I love these quirky watercolors by artist Happy Menocal! She does sweet little prints and originals, and does custom stationery work, turning your monogram into a work of art. Check her out here.

4. Celebrate: I'm kind of inspired to celebrate Cinco de Mayo strictly because these invites from Paperless Post are too cute to pass up! Not because of the tequila and tacos...

5. Shop: Come see my sweet and talented friend artist Caroline Swetenburg this Saturday, May 2nd, at the Ramey Rhodes studio! Her abstracts are gorgeous and I want all of them. Come check them out and see the latest from Ramey Rhodes from 1-5 PM. It's a great Derby pre-game eh?

6. Watch: I can't really explain what Miffy is, and apparently it's 60 years old?!? But it's rill cute, so I mean, just watch it and enjoy the cute. 

Also check out these finds:

Stripes and total comfort. On. Board. Wearing it with my favorite blazer in white!

My friend Caroline is wearing this to her show tonight. AND J Crew is doing an extra 30% off SALE with code YAYMAY. Get it.

You know how much I love a jumpsuit.

This BRIGHT BRIGHT but simple number is inspiring me to get in shape (and maybe a spray tan).

Have a lovely weekend! 

PPS Couture

Plum Pretty Sugar, a line I love for its gorgeous floral print pajamas and robes, has just released a new collection of gowns that are delish and I'm excited to introduce you to them. Any of you wildflower boho brides need to take a look at these for your bridesmaids or for your own use. Ethereal is the word. Each dress has a name in the Blake Lively vein: Billy (my fave), Charlie, James and Ryan, and they are all available in four gorgeous pastel floral chiffon prints. Ruffles, pretty hand pleating and pintucking add to the gorgeousness. The Ryan even has pockets. POCKETS! They're all amazing options for a summer wedding or black tie event. Or just for wandering around a meadow at dusk. Pro tip: if you're planning a wedding, think about doing a set of their robes or PJs for your maids too!